Sex before Marriage and its Consequences
In the name of Allah, most compassionate and most merciful.
“From among the signs of the Hour (end of time) are that religious knowledge will be taken away (by the death of religious scholars), ignorance will prevail, drinking of alcoholic drinks, and there will be a prevalence of Zina.” – Prophet (saw) We begin our topic with these words of our beloved Prophet. How true were his words? We live in a world where all these things are prevalent and unfortunately in our Muslim community as well. Many of our Muslim brothers and sisters are trapped in the evil of Zina and it has become a norm for them, as a result they don’t even consider it haram and unlawful.
Allah says in holy Quran: Sūrah al-Isrā’, 17:32:
“And do not even approach zina, for it is an outrageous act, and an evil way…’’
We are not going into detail about why Zina is unlawful but in this article, you will find the consequences of this sin. How this affects a life of a person physically, mentally, spiritually and socially.
Imaam Ibn Al-Qayyim said,
“Fornication and adultery combine all evils; weakness in commitment to
the religion, lack of piety, corruption of manhood and the decrease of
praiseworthy jealousy. You will never find an adulterer or fornicator
who is pious, fulfills his promises, is truthful in his speech,
maintains a friendship or has jealousy over his wife; he will be
characterized by lies, deception, betrayal, accepting prohibitions and
not being mindful of Allah.”
All these characteristics are consequences of fornication and adultery.
1. Incurring the wrath of Allah The Almighty.
Naturally, Allah has ordered us in holy Quran to stay away from it and one who doesn’t will be punished.
2. Corruption of one’s wife and children.
How can a person think that if he commits a sin he will be left alone or his children and family won’t be affected? Either they too will be
corrupt like the person or they will face the ill consequences of this
sin too. A person must be wary of Allah’s wrath and trials.
3. Poverty and gloominess of the face, which will be apparent to people.
A fornicator will have no Noor on his face. He will face hardships in
this life and hereafter if he doesn’t repent. He will be in constant
anxiety and his gloominess and sadness will be apparent from his face.
4. Becoming Insignificant.
A person becomes insignificant in the eyes of Allah and in the eyes of
people as well. Allah will degrade his situation to worse.
5. It can lead to murder.
Yes, illegal and illicit relations often lead to unwanted pregnancies
and therefore abortions. An abortion is a crime and a sin. It is a
murder of a soul that has no fault in the sins of a person.
6. Divorce rates are increased.
When a person is in the deep sin of Zina, he/she doesn’t derive pleasure in Halaal relation with his spouse and hence the rates of divorce are
increased.
7. It steals Barakah from your earnings.
With Zina, a person spends on unlawful things and contributes to
facilitating the activities of Zina. As such the blessings of Allah are
removed from his earnings.
8. Worldly Punishment according to shariah.
Allah The Almighty commanded His Messenger sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention ) to take a pledge from women who entered
Islam to refrain from fornication and adultery. Allah The Almighty Says
(what means): {“O Prophet! When believing women come to you to give you
the Bai`ah (pledge), that they will not associate anything in worship
with Allah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit illegal
sexual intercourse, that they will not kill their children… then accept
their pledge.”} [Quran, 60: 12]
Allah The Almighty made the punishment for these sins vary from lashing
to stoning to death, along with the humiliation which results from
informing the community of the perpetrators of this sin. Allah The
Almighty Says (what means): {“The fornicatress and the fornicator, flog
each of them with a hundred stripes. Let not pity withhold you in their
case, in a punishment prescribed by Allah, if you believe in Allah and
the Last Day. And let a party of the believers witness their punishment. [This is for unmarried persons, but if married, the punishment is to
stone them to death].”} [Quran, 24: 2]
The Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention ) set the penalty for adultery and fornication as follows: “If the
parties (committing fornication) are unmarried, they should receive a
hundred lashes and be put into exile for a year. If they commit adultery after they are married, they should receive a hundred lashes and then
be stoned to death.” [Muslim]
9. Punishment of Grave.
Those who commit Zina are severely punished in their grave as well. In a very long hadith, Allah’s Messenger relates a dream in which he saw how a number of sinners are being punished in the intermediate life of
al-Barzakh (life in the grave). Samurah bin Jundub reported that one
morning Allah’s Messenger said: “Last night two men came to me (in a
dream) and said, “Come with us.” I went with them to a sacred land … We
proceeded until we came upon a hole in the ground that resembled a
baking pit, narrow at the top and wide at the bottom. Babbling and
voices were issuing from it. We looked in and saw naked men and women.
Ünderneath the pit was a raging fire; whenever it flared up, they
screamed and rose with it until they almost fell out of the pit. As it
subsided, they returned (to the bottom). I said, “Who are these?” They
said, “Come along!” … I said, “Since the beginning of this night, you
have taken me to different places, and I have seen amazing things! What
is all this that I saw?” They said, “We will now tell you … As for the
naked men and women who were in the pit, they are men and women who
indulge in zina … And I am Jibreel, and this is Meka’eel…”
May Allah Protect us.
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